I came across a great TED talk by social worker Brene Brown on the power of vulnerability. Courage is showing others who we are with our whole heart. The only way to connect with others is by showing them our vulnerabilities.
Since the above talk is 20 minutes and I know we're all busy hopping blogs for the Insecure Writers Support Group, here is a 5 minute presentation by Dr. Brown about the joys of imperfection.
Power of vulnerability?
Joys of imperfection?
Wha?
I'm here today to share with you some of my vulnerabilities, including insecurity and impatience. That's what happens in support groups, right? ;-)
In an earlier IWSG post I mentioned that my book sales had improved once my publisher lowered my ebook prices to $2.99. Unfortunately sales have slowed since then. Like, real slooow. Has anyone else noticed sales dipping?
While it's incredible to witness some books killing it (especially Wallbanger by Alice Clayton--released from my small publisher Omnific)--I feel insecure to compare that wild success to my little author hobby.
What are your insecurities?
I'm also mired in IMPATIENCE. Can you believe how long it takes to write a novel? I've been working on my WIP for a year and I'm still not done. I hoped to finish by now, when the ten weeks of The Next Best Thing ended. (Oh, that's another imperfection--I'm terribly behind with this meme.)
The good news is that I'm at 89,000 words. I will finish On Best Behavior!
What makes you impatient?
GIVEAWAYS!!!
Omnific Publishing hosts a Holiday Without Rules Kindles Full of Books Giveaway. My publisher will give away THREE Kindles, people! Loaded with our books. Enter HERE. And join us for the Author Author Blog Bounce too.
Are you stressed out from stringing Christmas lights and knocking back too much Egg Nog? Visit Kate Evangelista's blog where I provide tips for "Maintaining Sanity for the Holidays". I'm also giving away my YA swimming romance Streamline.
Since the above talk is 20 minutes and I know we're all busy hopping blogs for the Insecure Writers Support Group, here is a 5 minute presentation by Dr. Brown about the joys of imperfection.
Power of vulnerability?
Joys of imperfection?
Wha?
I'm here today to share with you some of my vulnerabilities, including insecurity and impatience. That's what happens in support groups, right? ;-)
In an earlier IWSG post I mentioned that my book sales had improved once my publisher lowered my ebook prices to $2.99. Unfortunately sales have slowed since then. Like, real slooow. Has anyone else noticed sales dipping?
While it's incredible to witness some books killing it (especially Wallbanger by Alice Clayton--released from my small publisher Omnific)--I feel insecure to compare that wild success to my little author hobby.
What are your insecurities?
I'm also mired in IMPATIENCE. Can you believe how long it takes to write a novel? I've been working on my WIP for a year and I'm still not done. I hoped to finish by now, when the ten weeks of The Next Best Thing ended. (Oh, that's another imperfection--I'm terribly behind with this meme.)
The good news is that I'm at 89,000 words. I will finish On Best Behavior!
What makes you impatient?
GIVEAWAYS!!!
Omnific Publishing hosts a Holiday Without Rules Kindles Full of Books Giveaway. My publisher will give away THREE Kindles, people! Loaded with our books. Enter HERE. And join us for the Author Author Blog Bounce too.
Are you stressed out from stringing Christmas lights and knocking back too much Egg Nog? Visit Kate Evangelista's blog where I provide tips for "Maintaining Sanity for the Holidays". I'm also giving away my YA swimming romance Streamline.
Comments
To be vulnerable is to be authentic. No one is perfect. We know that, and when another person is brave enough to show where they have doubts and fears, it makes us feel closer to them. Of course, to predators, it shows them where to close in for the kill. So to be authentic these days is to be brave.
For my DOWN HOME CHRISTMAS post of yesterday, I dared to show my heart and to speak of love. Of course, it got the fewest visits of any of my posts for months. To dare to be vulnerable sometimes hurts.
Excellent, thought-provoking post, Jennifer.
My new book isn't selling. I'm getting a new cover, then will drop the price.
However, my other series continues to sell steady.
My new book is a different audience, so it's like starting over. Blah! lol
I noticed my rankings dropped in November, so I guess that means less sales.
Mostly I'm thrilled about the Wallbanger success, but yes, it's got me feeling a bit insecure, like I'm leaving some sort of magical stone unturned in my marketing efforts.
Thanks for your IWSG reminder at my place! But my post should've been up by then so please let me know if you still don't see it. Thanks madame. ;)
I'm trying to learn the adult romance and YA romance communities, finding they're way different!
There really should be a magic key to marketing. We could all use that. :) I'm impatient by nature. I hate waiting. Funny that I would choose to write knowing this.